I see a lot of couples in diverse relationships; for example, multiple partners whether all together or in separate connections. This could be a relationship beyond a couple, such as three or more partners who all share a relationship together. It can also mean a couple that has multiple partners outside of each other, romantically and/or sexually. These types of relationships have been around for a long time—and many other animal species engage in them. Despite that, in our culture it remains very much the norm to be in a two-person monogamous relationship, and consensual nonmonogamists still face stigma. Many people are uncomfortable with the idea in their own relationship and project that discomfort onto others. Some people consider it cheating to have a relationship with more than one person. Even in the therapy fields, you will find bias—with therapy practices being called “marriage counseling” or “couples therapy." Most clients I see in nonmonogamous relationships are not out to friends and family because of the stigma.

Of course. As long as everyone is consenting and there is healthy........

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