Summer break offers a rare pause in the rush of the academic year. Bedtimes are later, the pressure of homework is off, and many families are spending more time together. That makes it the perfect season to connect more intentionally with your kids—not just about plans and playdates, but about values, identity, and justice.

This summer break, I’ve been soaking up every sunny moment with my son and my nieces and nephew. We’ve spent hours at the pool splashing, laughing, and learning who can hold their breath the longest. These fun-filled days are more than just play—they’re powerful opportunities to connect on a deeper level. When I gush over how much I love the texture of my son’s hair or the deep browns the sun brings out of his skin, he learns to take pride in his African features. Whether we’re sharing snacks, reading stories in the shade, or talking about what fairness means when someone........

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