Attachment Wounds on Screen: 2025’s TV Relationships
In 2025, the relationships that dominated our screens weren’t selling us healthy love. They were defined by longing, ambivalence, rivalry, and instability, and somehow that was exactly why they worked.
What made these relationships so enticing was the toxicity recognized by millions. It felt relatable.
The push-pull. The hope. The magnificent almosts. The heartbreak. The fantasy that love, if intense enough, could heal old wounds.
Here is a look at the most enticing on-screen relationships of 2025 and the attachment dynamics driving them.
Before it becomes volatile and destructive, Lucy and Stephen’s relationship emerges through chemistry, proximity, and intensity.
Raised by a narcissistic, erratic mother who gaslights, invalidates, and torments him, Stephen learns that vulnerability is dangerous and love is transactional. Because emotional exposure feels unsafe, his feelings are controlled, suppressed, or strategically deployed. What appears as charm or confidence is a survival strategy, and his composure is the result of emotional detachment.
Lucy enters the relationship carrying unresolved grief after her father’s death. His loss destabilizes her sense of safety and leaves her angry, unmoored, and deeply disappointed in her mother. The person who once anchored her emotionally is gone, and the remaining attachment figures feel unreliable. In that void, Stephen becomes a focal point, a source of intensity that gives her grief a place to land.
Stephen maintains power through emotional withholding, distortion, and deliberate unpredictability. Lucy responds by trying harder, doubting her own perceptions, and slowly losing access to her judgment. He reframes events, minimizes harm, and subtly denies her reality until she begins to question........





















Toi Staff
Sabine Sterk
Penny S. Tee
Gideon Levy
Waka Ikeda
Tarik Cyril Amar
Mark Travers Ph.d
Grant Arthur Gochin