Slow Down, Reflect, and Practice Self-Acceptance
January can feel like a letdown after the magic and momentum of the holidays. The celebrations fade, the schedules empty out, and suddenly we’re left with quiet—sometimes too much of it. For many people, this shift brings on a sense of heaviness—the post-holiday blues. This can feel especially disorienting when the cultural message of the New Year pushes striving for self-improvement through resolutions.
Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) offers a different, gentler, and more sustainable way to approach this season—one rooted in slowing down, reflecting, and reconnecting with your long-term values rather than quick-fix goals or resolutions.
1. Slow Down
While the New Year often comes with pressure to “start strong,” ACT invites us to pause. Many of us move through the year-end on adrenaline—balancing packed calendars, © Psychology Today





















Toi Staff
Sabine Sterk
Gideon Levy
Penny S. Tee
Mark Travers Ph.d
John Nosta
Daniel Orenstein