Like their predecessors in prior generations, today’s parents continue to struggle with the challenges of communicating effectively with their teenage children. The common characterization of adolescence as a tumultuous and unpredictable phase, marked by conflict and discord between parent and child, remains prevalent and pertinent, generating angst and frustration for both parties.

This period of development is characterized by a confluence of contrasting and often unacknowledged emotions, such as ambivalence regarding transitions and the inevitability of "growing up." As a practitioner specializing in the treatment of individuals across various age groups, including adults, adolescents, preadolescents, and children, I frequently observe misunderstandings and breakdowns in communication between parents and adolescents. While a degree of such discord is considered normative and perhaps even necessary for healthy individuation and autonomy, these conflicts and disconnections frequently escalate due to a tendency to personalize the situation rather than adopting a broader........

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