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Burnout can come from being someone we no longer have the energy to be.

The nervous system seeks certainty before clarity has emerged.

Discomfort can be a sign that something more authentic is trying to form.

There are periods in life when almost nothing fits properly anymore.

The old structure no longer feels entirely inhabitable, yet the new one has not fully revealed itself either. Relationships shift. Roles begin to dissolve. Places that once felt meaningful lose some of their emotional gravity. Even success can start to feel strangely hollow, as though it belongs to a previous version of us.

From the outside, this can look like uncertainty or indecision. Internally, it often feels far more disorientating than that. Like standing barefoot in unfamiliar terrain without the identity that once helped you navigate the world.

I think many of us assume that growth will feel expansive and inspiring, accompanied by clarity and momentum, yet some of the most important transitions in adult life begin with discomfort. The nervous system becomes less willing to tolerate what it once endured so easily. Noise feels louder, and pressure feels heavier. Things we once pushed through with determination begin quietly asking a........

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