Why Do We Hurt Those We Love? Psychologists Explain The Deep Paradox Of Human Relationships And Vulnerability
One of the most perplexing aspects of human relationships is to hurt someone we love and to get hurt by someone who loves us. But why? Why do we do this to us and the ones we love? Most common answer given by many is “because we just want to do it”. There is no logical reason for it, but it’s something that just happens. According to psychologists most of the people hurt someone because they want something they think they can’t have, or have something they don’t want. If we closely observe ourselves, then we would find that most of us are in one of the above two conditions, and we don’t know what to do about it, hence we think that the only method of getting what we want is to hurt someone. Also, when we........
