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Polly Hudson

The Guardian

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I was a whinger, a cynic, a misanthrope. Then I saw Harry Styles live – and I will never be the same again

I was a whinger, a cynic, a misanthrope. Then I saw Harry Styles live – and I will never be the same again

The answers to some little questions are hugely revealing. We pass it off as small talk, but asking about somebody’s first anything often reveals...

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I have decided to stop using a mirror – and I know it will change my life

I have decided to stop using a mirror – and I know it will change my life

Rats in labs eventually work out which behaviour stops the electric shocks, but I had to be taught by a podcast. Comedian Hannah Berner was a recent...

18.06.2026 10

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I am an only child, and so is my son. And we are not weirdos

Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me ... must be a saying thought up by somebody extremely privileged. For everyone else,...

17.06.2026 10

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Want to be my friend? There is one dining rule you must adhere to

Medication can have a wide array of side-effects, which now apparently includes penny-pinching. In the newsletter the Daily Skimm, a reader had a...

10.06.2026 10

The Guardian

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I know it’s taboo – but I’m a big fan of marriage

It’s hard to pinpoint the moment something shifts from unfashionable to taboo, but it feels as if we’re there. With a “hot divorcee summer” on...

09.06.2026 20

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Rebekah Vardy gets a bad rap – but she’s my queen of the one-liner

The first I knew of Rebekah Vardy was when she appeared after more dots than anybody has ever used before, in the whodunnit denouement of Wagatha...

04.06.2026 10

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It’s not just Rosamund Pike who struggles with badly behaved theatre-goers. I was nearly beaten up by a hen party

Rosamund Pike probably lost a fan last weekend, while simultaneously gaining many more. The secret texter she called out without identifying...

03.06.2026 10

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Fed up with being taken for granted? Spoilt pig syndrome could change your life

There are some events so momentous that you always remember where you were when you heard about them. They’re usually historic, frequently shocking,...

31.05.2026 20

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My dad was far from perfect – but I live by the advice he gave me on his deathbed

This sounds like an old-fashioned, “take my mother-in-law” type joke, but is the antithesis of funny: one in five British people would swap their...

24.05.2026 20

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Why Brooklyn Beckham is – bear with me – a brilliant role model

Nepo babies provoke a unique brand of ire. Fittingly, they seem to bring out the toddler in many of us; a foot-stamping tantrum sense of but that’s...

17.05.2026 30

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Are you a ‘time optimist’? I’m sorry, we can’t be friends

No matter the rumours, no matter the truth, Hollywood convention dictates that all actors describe whatever cast they’ve been part of as “one big...

10.05.2026 20

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Stopping to admire wisteria and taking pride in your laundry? Join me in the land of grownups

I nearly drove into a wall the other day, because I couldn’t take my eyes off some spectacular wisteria. Ten years ago I doubt I would have even...

03.05.2026 20

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Teenagers are calling time on the handshake. I salute them, from a safe distance

Sometimes you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone. A person, place or thing you perhaps took for granted exits your existence, and only...

26.04.2026 30

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Are you a ‘gentle partner’ or a ‘Fafo partner’? I know which team I’m on

How do you tell the difference between a sign from the universe and a coincidence? It’s been a challenging couple of weeks in my house, because my...

19.04.2026 30

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The Artemis II crew made it through 10 days in space together – but could they have survived my first office job?

Four people have joined the tiny percentage of humans who can say they have come back to Earth with a bump, literally. Welcome home, Artemis II crew:...

12.04.2026 30

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Why was Denise Welch so furious about her son’s bins? That’s what being a parent does to you

Some new academic research into parenthood has caused quite a stir, by revealing that having children doesn’t make you happier. Some were outraged...

05.04.2026 20

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Faithful, sensitive, forgiving: overthinkers like me make the best partners

It takes a certain kind of bravery to speak out on behalf of a much-maligned group, so thank you, Mark Travers, PhD. This American psychologist has...

29.03.2026 20

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The Wordle guy’s latest move tells us a lot about modern-day ambition

He is one letter away from being a household name. Now Josh Wardle, the inventor of Wordle, has launched a new online game, and in doing so, provided...

22.03.2026 20

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I clicked on an Instagram post about a happy dog – and opened a hellish portal

11.03.2026 30

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Let’s be blunt – British people need to stop being so polite

Sunday lunch guests often check in the day before, but this text was different. Rather than making sure of the time, or wondering what to bring, it...

10.03.2026 30

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The great shared bed debate is here – and you have to pick a side

How well do any of us really know our friends? You may be confident of the answer to that, feel secure – smug, even – but be warned. One day, a...

04.03.2026 40

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Women everywhere are extolling the single life – not least, Pamela Anderson

Pamela Anderson has been married five times. She has made the kind of romantic decisions – impulsive, reckless, incorrigible – that suggest...

03.03.2026 40

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The ‘vegan but bacon’ principle is here. Could it help us achieve our goals?

You might at first be tempted to mark the date and write down the exact time, certain that this was the moment we really had heard it all. A new...

25.02.2026 20

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Amused by that AI video of a dancing raccoon? This is how the misery starts ...

Moan all you like about technology, there’s no denying it’s made friendship easier. In an ideal world you would spend quality time together, have...

24.02.2026 20

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I tried the latest sleep trick – and my husband and I were up all night

A doctor has gone viral – which sounds like the beginning of a dad joke, but isn’t – with a hack for getting back to sleep if you wake at 3am....

18.02.2026 30

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Katherine Ryan has had a facelift at 42. Why do I feel betrayed?

Katherine Ryan’s podcast is called Telling Everybody Everything, and she does. The comedian is honest to a fault: her comments are regularly...

17.02.2026 30

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You might love olive oil, but don’t put it on your CV

11.02.2026 50

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Fellow parents! Jan Leeming is right – our kids need to be trained to behave in public

10.02.2026 20

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Want to avoid an invitation? Try the ‘soft no’

04.02.2026 30

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I confessed a deplorable secret about motherhood to a friend – and it changed my life

03.02.2026 20

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Why would anyone buy Lily Allen’s haunted house? I have an inkling ...

28.01.2026 20

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Are you an oversharer? Maybe it’s time to rein it in

27.01.2026 50

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Why are British people so obsessed with bins?

21.01.2026 30

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Is it ever a good idea to give someone a nickname?

20.01.2026 40

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Brooklyn Peltz Beckham set an important trend. Will other men follow?

08.01.2026 30

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Nicola Jennings on Donald Trump’s threats to take over Greenland – cartoon

07.01.2026 30

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‘For a moment, only that story matters’: my plan to reignite the all-consuming love of books

07.01.2026 30

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We live in a surveillance culture – but why would I want to track my son or husband?

07.01.2026 20

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I've shouted at seven-year-olds to support my son - he can do no wrong

02.01.2026 20

iNews

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'Reaching out' and 'circling back': the 34 clichés we must ban in 2026

26.12.2025 20

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I’m a Grinch and my husband is like Buddy the Elf – here is how we found a Christmas compromise

21.12.2025 40

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The real winner of The Salt Path scandal? Raynor Winn

19.12.2025 20

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At least there’s one thing we can all agree on: Claudia Winkleman

11.12.2025 30

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Received an unwanted gift? Here is your failsafe guide to how to respond

10.12.2025 20

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Yes, it’s full of nonsense, extreme hosting and psychobabble. But I do love Meghan’s Christmas special

07.12.2025 30

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Never argue with your partner? That's not a good thing

06.12.2025 20

iNews

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I bought my flat in the 90s with a £5k deposit – my son will be lucky if he can afford rent

30.11.2025 30

iNews

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Don’t filter your dates by age and hobbies, ask them how they shop

30.11.2025 30

The Guardian

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Party season is coming – and I am the tense, sweaty, shrill hostess with the leastess

23.11.2025 30

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My husband cooks all the meals in our house - I resent cleaning up his mess

22.11.2025 30

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