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Introducing ‘Quiet Dating,’ the Trend for People Tired of Performing Their Love Lives Online

“Quiet dating” means keeping romance more private, but experts say it should not make someone feel hidden.

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When you dive into the dating scene, you might be tempted to share your experiences with loved ones. That horrid first date story would be a hit in your friend’s group chat. The slow-burn connection you’re building with your guy friend will undoubtedly make your mom happy. And those luxurious dates your situationship is taking you on would make for an aesthetic Instagram post. 

But is there danger of sharing too much of your dating life—even with those closest to you? It depends on your intentions, of course. But in my experience, the more you date for validation, the less authentic your connections will be. If you’re immediately updating your social circle with the latest dating pros and woes, then you might want to take a step back and reflect for a bit. 

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