Adulthood's obsession with status and productivity is a trap that destroys our natural joy.

Spiritual and psychological masters teach that true inner peace requires a childlike heart.

Engaging in pure play, like Carl Jung building mud villages, can release vital creative energy.

Have you ever heard of William F. Buckley Jr.?

For 33 years, he hosted the television show "Firing Line," interviewing thousands of the most influential people of his time. He was a man of immense vocabulary, known for his sharp debate skills and serious political thought. Yet, despite his profound intellect, he recognized that the ultimate secret to a joyful life was not found in adult sophistication or serious achievements.

It was found in a very simple directive: Don't grow up.

I completely agree with his assessment. Adulthood, with its relentless obsession with status, productivity, and seriousness, is often a trap. True, deep wisdom is actually found in retaining the awe, curiosity, and openheartedness of a child.

Trading Joy for a Resume

So, why do we grow up and lose our happiness?

Just last weekend, I watched the new biopic Michael, which chronicles the life of Michael Jackson. When you watch the film, you see how, in his younger years, he possessed a pure, unadulterated, childlike nature. His immense creativity and joy........

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