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Good listening fosters psychological safety, making partners more willing to speak openly.

Communication and listening skills are learned, not innate, and require intentional practice.

Active listening involves engagement, reflection, and questions.

Love, like anything you deem valuable in your life, requires some degree of protection. Passion and chemistry can certainly help sustain a relationship early on, but they’ll only take you so far; neither is powerful enough on its own to carry love indefinitely.

What determines the health of a relationship over time is how two people behave when things are ordinary. It comes down to how you handle tension, misunderstandings and boredom. Here are two such skills that help partners protect their bond, according to research.

1. Communication Skills

Just about everyone knows that communication is one of the most important aspects of a romantic relationship. It’s one of those buzzwords repeated so often that it starts to lose meaning. Yet ironically, ask anyone what good communication actually entails, and they’ll likely struggle to give you an answer.

In fairness, this is the case for most people, because communication isn’t a skill that we’re explicitly taught how to hone. Most of us learn it indirectly through trial and error, but without ever really definitively realizing what it takes. But thankfully, psychological researchers have spent decades attempting to conceptualize “good communication.”

While there isn’t an exhaustive guide, there is at least a general consensus regarding certain elements that contribute to it. A 2018 review published in the Journal of Psychology in Africa synthesized findings........

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