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Many grandfathers find themselves more present than they were as young fathers.

Grandchildren often help grandfathers rediscover joy, curiosity, and play.

Grandfatherhood shifts the focus from achievement to connection.

“I love you Poppop!” These words were said by my almost 3-year-old grandson while driving one day. We were coming back from a “big truck” event, and in the midst of talking about the different trucks we saw, he uttered these four words.

My heart instantly melted, and of course, I said back to him, “I love you too!” I never could have imagined what being a grandfather could feel like. Of course, I love being a father and marvel at my sons and the incredible people they are today. With Father’s Day approaching, I have found myself reflecting not only on being a father to my two sons, but also in my newer role as grandfather to my two grandsons. When raising my sons, fatherhood felt defined by responsibility, urgency and the constant pressure to provide, protect and hopefully guide them as they grew.

Why Grandfatherhood Differs Emotionally from Fatherhood

Grandfatherhood feels different. There is still an abundance of love, but now it is accompanied by perspective, boundless patience, and an increased heightened awareness of how fleeting childhood truly is. Watching my own child become a parent has opened an unexpected emotional chapter – one filled with not only joy and marvel, but also reflection, humility, and at times, quiet reconsideration of the father I once was.

According to information reported by Bates at Ohio State in 2021 “There are an estimated 31 million grandfathers in the United States, making up roughly 9.5% of the American population. Among these, about 750,000 to 1.3 million grandfathers serve as the primary caretakers who are actively raising their grandchildren. Because men today are living longer than men of previous generations, they will likely have more years to devote to grandfatherhood than their predecessors.”

I am not alone in my role as a grandfather, but in preparing for this blog post, I have found little written about the role of being a grandfather. Most........

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