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I had the pleasure of speaking with Jimmy Sotos about overnight visibility and the mental strain of living inside the algorithm.

Sotos grew up the youngest of four boys in a basketball family. His father played professionally in Greece, and his brothers played as well. He describes his brothers taking him to the gym, investing in him, rooting for him, love and expectation intertwined with the pressure to be good. He knew early on that time and energy were being poured into him, and he wanted to make it worth their while.

“I was maturing late in life,” he reflects. “So in order to keep up with my peers, I had to really train hard and work on my craft.” He remembers being 5’2” as a freshman in high school and thinking, “They don’t know what’s gonna hit them. Once I catch up to them physically, I’m gonna be way more skilled,” he says. “I would bank on this idea and keep training.”

At 15, he made a deal with his father: If he earned a scholarship, he would not need a job. Basketball would be his job.

“I convinced my dad that if I got a scholarship, I could put the hours I would have spent working a job into my game.”

The scholarship came. Along with it came a self-imposed standard that followed him into every chapter of his life.

From Athlete to Algorithm

Sotos’ identity was organized around sport. His father’s motto was: “If you’re the best player in the gym, you’re in the wrong gym.” That ethos of seeking harder competition and never plateauing became his internalized narrative.

“I was always Jimmy the basketball player,” he says. “And then overnight, it was Jimmy the TikToker.”

His rise was abrupt. “I went from a couple........

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