Show up for a person dealing with a cancer diagnosis.

Engage in active listening.

Do not offer advice unless asked.

Avoid dismissive comments like "Everything will be fine."

This is a love letter to all of those who have dealt with a frightening cancer diagnosis. I am in awe of those who have struggled with it and have tremendous respect for their caregivers. You have taught me a lot. You have let me into your lives in your darkest and scariest moments. This has been an honor. I would like to share what I have learned so that others may avoid missteps I have made and that those around me have also made. I will also share what those with cancer and their caregivers have appreciated. On a personal note, I recently went on this journey with a family member I love with all my heart, so I speak from a very personal........

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