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If you find yourself wandering to the kitchen when there’s a blank space of time in your day, or mindlessly eating while you scroll on your phone, you’re not alone. Boredom-induced eating is one of the most common topics I get asked about in my "Getting Over Overeating" course.

I’ve definitely been there myself. Any time I had a free moment, I immediately turned to food. I know how frustrating that cycle can be and how easily boredom can become a signal to check out with food.

Boredom as a Messenger

Most of us tend to think of boredom as a core emotion, like sadness, fear, or anger, but it doesn't always fit neatly into that bucket. Boredom is more of a felt sense of understimulation, often mixed with thoughts about our current situation. It’s pointing to a hunger for something satisfying or interesting.

Oftentimes, when we feel bored, we’ve decided that the current moment isn’t meeting our need for meaning, connection, stimulation, or aliveness. The problem arises when we misinterpret this signal. We try to satisfy a need for stimulation or meaning with food, which is why eating rarely provides the relief we’re actually looking for. It’s a mismatch of needs.

When we eat out of sheer boredom, we rarely walk away feeling fulfilled. There’s usually no pleasurable sense of arrival or satisfaction. In contrast, when we consciously choose to enjoy a favorite meal, snack, or dessert, it usually hits the spot because we’re present with the food and meeting our need for nourishment and........

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