What Really Happens When You Sleep With a Friend, According to Psychology
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What Really Happens When You Sleep With a Friend, According to Psychology
A yearlong study found that some friends became romantic partners, while others returned to friendship or stopped speaking entirely.
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Sleeping with a friend sounds like a great idea after three tequila shots and a shared Uber home. The next morning, when you’re trying to remember who made the first move, things can get a little complicated. But sometimes, sleeping with a friend is how a great relationship starts.
Researchers at the University of Victoria looked at nearly 1,900 people and found that 68% said their current or most recent relationship started as a friendship. That figure climbed to 85% among people in their 20s and LGBTQ respondents. So there’s a solid chance the person you’re dating was once someone you called to complain about the people you were........
