We have an amazing love for our fellow Jew. Recently, we experienced snowstorms like we have not seen in years, with over two feet of snow falling in Brooklyn. Trying to shovel that amount of snow from your driveway becomes an incredibly difficult task. Yet even in the harshest weather, our sense of responsibility to one another shines through.

I have always removed the snow on both sides of my house—on one side lives an older couple, and on the other, a young couple with small babies. I have always felt it is important to look out for your neighbor, as it says in the Bible, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Perhaps I take that to heart strongly, but I am healthy and able, and I believe that when we can help, we should.

I want to speak about a person and an organization dedicated to helping their brothers and sisters in our community. The individual is Toby Shacalo, and the organization is Flatbush Shomrim. Toby has lived on my block for as many years as I can remember. I often see him with his Motorola radio, running to help a fellow Jew, no matter what kind of assistance is needed.

As I was beginning to shovel my neighbor’s house—mind you, it was a blizzard, nine degrees with heavy winds and over two feet of snow—I saw Toby in the middle of the street operating a large plowing machine. For a moment, I thought I was seeing the Messiah. I am not someone who usually asks for help; I am typically the one helping without saying a word. Yet without me asking, he plowed out my sidewalk and driveway. After about an hour, as I started working on my neighbor’s house, he simply continued and cleared their snow as well, without being asked.

Purim is a holiday rich with customs that remind us of our responsibility to one another. We read the Megillah, exchange Mishloach Manot (gifts of food), give Matanot la’evyonim (charity to those in need), and celebrate with joy and gratitude. Purim is not only about remembering the salvation of the Jewish people in ancient Persia; it is about strengthening unity within our community today. The mitzvot of the day emphasize generosity, kindness, and caring for our fellow Jew, ensuring that no one is forgotten and that everyone can share in the happiness of the holiday.

Two hours later, I asked if I could pay him. He smiled and said, “Pay it forward.” That struck me deeply, because that is exactly how I try to live my life. His actions were selfless and representative of a man—and an organization—that volunteers its time and resources for the community. While he may not be the Messiah, I am deeply grateful to him and to Flatbush Shomrim. As Purim approaches—a time of joy and caring for those less fortunate—I encourage everyone to show kindness to their fellow human beings. If you can volunteer, that is wonderful. If not, consider making a donation to Flatbush Shomrim. http://flatbushshomrim.org/

Wishing everyone a Happy Purim.

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