Who Mothers the Mother?
She stands before the mirror, unable to recognize the woman looking back. She has just given birth, and everything seems too much at once. Her sleep-deprived body aches, and she feels dangerously frail under the weight of her responsibilities. She has a home to manage, a family to tend to, and a new soul to care for, all while she can barely think coherently. Her mind seems to be going haywire, and she cries quietly in the dark, then wipes her tears and pulls herself together, forcing a smile. After all, she’s just been blessed with a child. What’s there to be unhappy about? She doesn’t want to be labeled ungrateful because “loag kia kahaingay”. In countless Pakistani homes, this is the unspoken reality of early motherhood.The newly launched National Mental Health Policy 2026–2035 acknowledges a national mental health crisis affecting 32.4 million people and commits to integrating care into primary healthcare services. But its public launch announcements do not make clear how maternal mental health will be addressed. While on paper this commitment marks a historic milestone, the question remains: will maternal mental health cross the threshold of the traditional Pakistani household? Not unless our cultural script around maternal mental health evolves. For that to happen, there........
