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I’m head coach of the Gotham FC women’s soccer team — why I took paternity leave in the middle of a season

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There is never a perfect time to step away from your team. 

If you’re a head coach, there is always another game, another trip, another training session. And in professional women’s soccer, those demands last almost 11 months of the year.

But, as I tell my players, we’re people first — and when I became a dad, I learned the hard way what it meant to put the job ahead of my family when they needed me most.

So when my second child, Laia, was born a few months ago, I knew I had to do things differently. That meant taking five weeks of paternity leave from Gotham FC — currently the top-ranking team in the National Women’s Soccer League and 2025 champions — in the middle of the season.

I only wish I made the same choice back in 2021.

At the time, I had just started a job with Real Betis Féminas, a team based in Seville. We were at the bottom of the league and fighting relegation — meaning being demoted to a lower division for the next season — when my wife, Laura, told me she was pregnant.

It was a difficult moment at work. I put all my efforts into the team and we turned things around and pulled off something of a miracle, finishing 12th and securing our survival.

Then came my second season as head coach, and, finally, the arrival of my son.

Luka was born on a Thursday. I coached a game the night before while Laura was in the hospital, spent Friday at home with my new family of three and was back on the pitch Saturday afternoon.

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In Spain, fathers and mothers are both entitled to 16 weeks of leave. But it wasn’t something I felt I could even contemplate. The team was still struggling, and we didn’t have the resources or structure in place to make it possible.

Even when I looked for small ways to spend more time at home — like flying to away games........

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