The Priests Who Carry Us – OpEd
We see them at the altar every Sunday, vested and ready, leading us through the familiar rhythms of Mass. We call them when life falls apart—when someone dies, a marriage breaks, or a child is in trouble—and we expect them to show up, steady and available. But how often do we stop to think about what their lives look like once they leave the sanctuary?
A priest’s closest thing to a family is often the parish itself. He becomes a spiritual father to a community, carrying not just sacraments but other people’s grief, confusion, guilt, and hope. That kind of life does not come with the ordinary comforts most of us rely on: home, privacy, shared responsibilities, and the quiet support of family at the end of a hard day.
Every morning he celebrates the Eucharist, whether five people are in the pews or fifty. He hears confessions, visits the sick, brings communion to hospital rooms, and answers calls in the middle of the night when someone is dying and the family needs a priest now. This is not occasional work. It is the shape of his life. And while most of us can close the door on work and rest, a priest is often still on call long........
