Much‑loved shantyman honoured with poignant tributes
Peter Wadham, of Great Massingham, was a beloved member of Nelson’s Shantymen before his death in December.
At the time of his death, a tribute from the group said: “It is with incredibly heavy hearts and deep sadness that we share the news of the passing of our dear friend and fellow shantyman, Peter Wadham.
“For four wonderful years, Pete was one of us in the Nelson's Shantymen Family.
Tributes have been paid to Peter Wadham following his death (Image: Supplied)
“We have countless, amazing memories of our time together, both on stage gigging and during our social outings. He wasn't just a bandmate; he was truly like family to every one of us.
“Pete, we will miss your laughter, your spirit, and your presence more than words can say. Our thoughts are with his family and loved ones during this incredibly difficult time.
“Rest in peace, Wads. We will always keep the tide rolling for you.”
Tributes have been paid to Peter Wadham following his death (Image: Supplied)
Recently the group joined forces with the White Horse pub in Brancaster Staithe for a special singalong in his memory.
This event saw £7,493 raised in his name for the Queen Elizabeth Hospital charity’s Cancer Care Unit fund – a cause close to his heart. The shantymen had arranged performances at the hospice during his final weeks there, bringing comfort and music to residents.
Tributes have been paid to Peter Wadham following his death - pictured with his wife, Karen (Image: Supplied)
Mr Wadham’s widow, Karen, said: “Peter wished he had found the Shantymen years ago and said he felt like he'd found his forever group.
“He was kind, generous and selfless and bore his illness with dignity and stoicism, still thinking of others even at the end.”
In a final contribution to the group he loved, Mr Wadham recorded a solo shortly before he died, ensuring he could still sing with his fellow Shantymen at his own funeral.
Tributes have been paid to Peter Wadham following his death (Image: Supplied)
Dr Jamie Morton-Gittens, a specialist oncologist at the hospital, said: “It was very kind of the fundraisers to think of us and to present us with such a fantastic amount that they raised.
“In the year I was involved in treating Peter, he often talked fondly of being a part of the Shantymen, and how important it was for him to perform with them as long as he could, even if it meant he had to sit down.
“He was very thoughtful, and I am not surprised that his generosity has continued even after his passing, with such a generous gift.”
Tributes have been paid to Peter Wadham following his death (Image: Supplied)
Finally, a tribute to him was shared via the Great Massingham Village Hall website, which described him as making “a huge impact” during his 40 years living there.
It added: “He saw the Village Hall as the cornerstone of the village and was on the committee and as chair and treasurer for many years.
“Peter played a big part in the team who brought the hall back from the brink of bankruptcy, spawned the creation of the snooker room, and oversaw the refurbishment of the hall and bar.
“Peter was a caring and loving husband to Karen, our film night chair, a dedicated father to his children - Alison and James - and a devoted grandfather too.
Tributes have been paid to Peter Wadham following his death (Image: Supplied)
“We offer them our sincere condolences.
“His kindness and consideration for others and love and loyalty to friends and family made him a hugely popular member of our community. We will miss you, Peter.”
Nelson’s Shantymen have been performing together for more than 15 years and during the past year have performed at 40 concerts, raising £15,000 for charity.
The White Horse pub has also been a longstanding supporter of local cancer care, raising £46,000 for the QEH Cancer Care Unit over the past decade.
