Today, it seems like we’re all striving for—and even faking—the “perfect” life. However, when we inevitably fall short of it, we end up feeling defeated. I hear self-pitying statements like “Just when things are looking up, something goes wrong” or “I’m always waiting for the shoe to drop” quite often—and I catch myself using them, […] The post The ‘Pendulum Lifestyle’ Might Be the Secret to Finding Balance appeared first on VICE.