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‘Underdressed’ woman praised for trusting her instincts and leaving bad date after just 2 minutes

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28.06.2026

Rachel Anderson, 35, from Oregon, is being praised on TikTok for spotting a major red flag on a first date with a 37-year-old man and immediately walking out. “You showed me who you were, you don’t have to show me twice,” she said in a viral video with nearly a million views. Anderson was looking forward to the date when the man told her to dress “like it’s a lounge day at home.”

“So, I throw on some sweatpants and NBC sweatshirt, some tennis shoes, my hair in a bun, no jewelry, no nothing,” she said in her viral TikTok video. But when she got to the fancy restaurant, she saw she was incredibly underdressed while her date was wearing a “white button down, navy dress pants & dress shoes. I was shocked,” she wrote in the video’s comments.

“Why does this man try to walk me into a fine dining restaurant? I immediately know. I turned around and walked out,” she said. Anderson suspected that the man was trying to........

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