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The internet slams a man drinking water while his partner gives birth, but a nurse sets them straight

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21.07.2026

Many couples post videos of their child’s birth at the hospital, but one particular video was overly scrutinized online.

In the social media post, the father-to-be is seated and drinking from a cup offered to him while his partner is actively pushing. The post drew thousands of likes on comments such as “This is a red flag” and “He legit looks like he couldn’t care less.” Amid all of this, a nurse came to the man’s defense.

A nurse jumped in to set things straight

Nurse Jen Hamilton explained why that moment was actually a green flag.

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“This is a nurse handing a man a cup of water while his lady is pushing,” said Hamilton. “Do you think we as nurses hand out refreshments while our patients are pushing as customer service?”

Hamilton further explained that the man was likely showing signs of becoming lightheaded and close to fainting after witnessing the birth and feeling growing concern for his partner. She added that nurses were probably telling him to “sit their booty cheeks down on that hard couch and drink something.” If the........

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