It’s all about commitment. Well, that and the “11 things” you can do in 365 days to change your life, if only just a little. That’s what New York Times bestselling author Jesse Itzler suggests with his “1-6-4” method for becoming more interesting.

In a reel making the rounds on social media, Itzler explains that “the more interesting you are, the easier it is to get a job, a promotion, the girl, or the guy. So I have this super simple system called the 1-6-4 system, and I’m gonna walk you through it right now.”

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“Number one,” Itzler shares is, “a Misogi. There’s an old Japanese ritual…and the notion is you put one big year-defining thing on your calendar every year.” The clip shows someone on the ground with a giant (almost living room-sized) calendar on the floor with markers........

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