“One way or another, we are living the stories planted knowingly or unknowingly in us early in life, the stories that give our lives meaning.” - Ben Okri, A Way of Being Free

“One way or another, we are living the stories planted knowingly or unknowingly in us early in life, the stories that give our lives meaning.” - Ben Okri, A Way of Being Free

Our identities are dynamic and complex constructs. They are fluid and continually negotiated through our lived experiences and our relationships. Identity is also anchored in stories: we are shaped by the stories we live in and live by.

For instance, as a child, my three names Olabisi, Abike and Oluwaremilekun communicated deep cultural and emotional significance. These names continue to reflect blessings, cherished presence and ancestral continuity. These names are not mere labels but narrative anchors that shape my sense of self and my relationship with others.

As a narrative inquirer, I have explored my multiple identities as a doctoral student, a nurse, a mother, a daughter, a granddaughter, an instructor, an immigrant and a Black woman. I have also reflected on how my Yoruba heritage and my grandmother’s teachings laid the foundation for my formal education and career as a teacher.

As a professor now, I realize how my relationship with my grandmother also shapes my world view. She helped me learn that optimal learning flourishes in environments of support, empathy, courage and moral instruction.

In this way, I looked at how identities are nested within cultural, familial and institutional narratives. These identities, while being deeply enriching, sometimes generated internal tensions.

As I........

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