Carlos*, a 35-year-old married man working in the healthcare field, has been grappling with symptoms of attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) for most of his life without a formal diagnosis. Despite his intelligence and potential, he consistently falls short of his expectations in both his career and personal life. However, there's something deeper at play than just these challenges—shame.

Feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, and stressed, Carlos sought help at the encouragement of his wife. While he had never been diagnosed with ADHD, his wife suspected that his struggles extended beyond mere anxiety or depression, possibly involving focus and organizational issues.

After a comprehensive psychiatric assessment, which included a review of his lifelong symptoms and current struggles, I diagnosed Carlos with ADHD. My recommendation was to initiate medication for ADHD and to commence........

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