Love bombing occurs when someone expresses excessive praise and affection at a rate that is disproportionate to the current stage of their relationship in an attempt to manipulate the person they’re dating into committing to them quickly.

Love bombing can initially feel like an exciting fairytale. Particularly in the modern dating era when many people struggle with connecting emotionally or being vulnerable, someone who is love bombing you may feel like a breath of fresh air.

So, if it feels like you’re connecting with someone you like and they are looking for commitment, why not enjoy it? The issue with love bombing is that it puts you in a position to overlook red flags and focus on a relationship fantasy at the expense of yourself.

When someone is love bombing you, you are only seeing what they want you to see. It is usually a carefully curated façade, which does not give you an accurate view of what a relationship with this person will actually look like. In this case, the old adage of “If it feels too good to be true, it probably is” feels relevant. Think of love bombing like the highlight reel on Instagram where only a person’s best moments are generally showcased, but none of their vulnerabilities, fears, or flaws are revealed.

If you are dating someone new, consider the following 10 warning signs that indicate someone may be love bombing you.

1. The pace feels fast

If the pace is feeling rushed when you’re dating someone new, that is your sign to slow down and pay attention to this feeling so that you can reflect on where it is coming from.

When you’re excited about someone new, it’s easy to get wrapped up in the thrill of it all and throw caution to the wind—which can cause you to overlook important warning signs and red flags during a crucial time.

2. They are engaging in future faking

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