When President Joe Biden announced his withdrawal from the 2024 election, some people were surprised it took so long. But whether you’re leaving public office, a relationship, or a party, the stay-or-go dilemma is one of the toughest decisions we face. While some won’t let go, others can’t. Appreciating the reasons why helps you accept the transition and fosters empathy for those who may struggle.

Even the smartest individuals fall prey to misjudgment, triggered by a range of power, ego, risk, emotion, and identity-related traps that narrow perspective. We tune into the voice of convenience over common sense.

Biden’s uncomfortable dilemma played out under a global microscope. Media depiction of a frail 81-year-old was married with the unfit-to-serve message. This was drip-fed since the disastrous presidential debate. He had a choice yet he didn’t, forced to bury personal preference for the greater good.

Some decide more easily. After JFK’s assassination, Lyndon B. Johnson decided not to seek another term. Post-pandemic, former New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinta Ardern resigned with “not........

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