A friend told me a story about Derek Black, a young leader in the white nationalist movement who had a mind-changing experience. In his first year in college, he was invited and then attended a number of dinners with Jewish classmates. He went to the first dinner ready to defend his views with evidence. Through open, respectful dialogue, he developed a new worldview.

His classmates didn’t try to argue with him and prove him wrong. Instead, they........

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