Fall is the perfect time to go within, refresh your routine, and engage your senses. Perhaps you take notice of the autumnal leaves, engage in novelty, or even travel. This change of season, this "newness," shatters the illusion that your current life is the only possible reality. Much like the myth of Pygmalion, we can easily lose touch with ourselves by getting caught up in the noise of this artificial world. This cautionary tale warns us of the heavy toll we pay—losing our identity and blurring healthy boundaries—when we let the noise of the world isolate us from our true selves.

The Story of Pygmalion

Pygmalion was a highly skilled and widely admired sculptor in Greek mythology. Disheartened by what he perceived as the imperfections of mortal women, he gave up pursuit of them and took a vow of celibacy. Instead, he dedicated himself to a life of art and creation and set out to create an artistic representation of the ideal female form. From the finest ivory, the sculptor devoted himself to chiseling every feature with increasing care and tenderness.

After many months, he transformed an already fine figure into one of unrivaled beauty—with refined features, radiant ivory skin, long windswept locks, and a generous waist-hip ratio. These visual signals of health and fertility remain timeless symbols of female beauty. He named his masterpiece Galatea. Once completed, the sculpture was so exquisitely beautiful that he fell deeply in love with it. The artwork was so lifelike that Pygmalion would touch it to confirm that it was not a living being. He progressed from admiring the sculpture to murmuring to it, caressing it, and even kissing it with his eyes closed. He envisioned her coming to life in his embrace. He was passionately in love with his own creation. He bestowed upon the........

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