Silence.

The word itself, sibilant and soft, seeks connection and understanding, just like we do.

Silence may be weaponized, sure—the silent treatment aptly earning a reputation as one of the most toxic communication strategies in existence. We’re implicitly and explicitly taught to fill “awkward silences” as good communicators. We may not consider silence an option unless we’re by ourselves. But what of silence’s positives? They are many.

Silence punctuates important points. Silence serves as a mic drop, underscoring what you said. Perhaps you’re stating a boundary or fact: “Sorry, I can’t take the trash out tonight. Please do it.” Saying more, offering an explanation, is long-winded and unnecessary—"I know I’ll be late. James leads exec. committee this afternoon and........

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