The binge watch
The son, with an irritated eye roll explains, “See Pa, Dhriti equals ‘they’ — Dhriti likes to be called ‘they, them’ not ‘she, her’.”
Illustration/Uday Mohite
In one of the early episodes of The Family Man: Season 3, an exhausted Srikant Tiwari (Manoj Bajpayee) asks his son, Atharva, why his daughter, Dhriti is in such a bad mood.
“‘They’ have a lot on their mind, ‘they’ are climate champions, LGBT warriors, ‘they’ are social media influencers, ‘they’ are worried about a lot of things,” the son says.
“Who are ‘they’? Your sister is one person, who are ‘they’,” the flummoxed Srikant asks.
The son, with an irritated eye roll explains, “See Pa, Dhriti equals ‘they’ — Dhriti likes to be called ‘they, them’ not ‘she, her’.”
“But why?” Srikant asks
“Oh ho, Dad, she’s a non-binary person.”
After a beat Bajpayee asks. “Accha this ‘they’ aur ‘them’, Hindi main kya bolenge?”
The son for once is perplexed, he says,........





















Toi Staff
Gideon Levy
Sabine Sterk
Stefano Lusa
John Nosta
Ellen Ginsberg Simon
Gilles Touboul
Mark Travers Ph.d
Tarik Cyril Amar
Daniel Orenstein