Book Box: The courage to be Vaishnavi Patel
A civil rights lawyer by day, an author by night, Vaishnavi Patel constantly challenges the mainstream. Her first book gives us a contrarian version of the Ramayana—letting wicked stepmother Kaikeyi tell her side of the story.
On a recent Friday evening, we gathered on Zoom—Vaishnavi logged in from New Orleans, Louisiana. The book club readers joined from three continents—Toronto, London, India, and Singapore. Here are edited excerpts from our conversation:
I was the first person in my family born outside of India, born here shortly after my parents immigrated. My parents tried really hard to give me as much of their culture as possible, especially my mom who is Marathi, and she wanted to make sure I spoke at least some Marathi, and my aji would come six months every year and stay with me, so we were as close as we could be with that distance as a family. As a child, I was always a big reader. I also would read a lot of books here from the library. And also I’d read a lot of Amar Chitra Katha and those sorts of books as well, or comics. So it was kind of a nice blend of everything.
The Amar Chitra Katha comics were my first exposure to Indian epics, but even then, I remember questioning certain portrayals—why some characters were always “good” and others “evil.” That definitely influenced how I approached Kaikeyi’s voice.
What was the specific moment that sparked the idea for Kaikeyi?
The seeds of Kaikeyi were planted seventeen years ago in a discussion between my mother and my grandmother. One particular summer, my grandmother told us the story of how the noble prince Rama was exiled by his jealous stepmother Kaikeyi. At this, my mother stepped in to add that Kaikeyi had actually helped Rama. Without Kaikeyi, my mother pointed out, Rama would have never achieved his destiny by slaying the demon king Ravana, his main adversary in the Ramayana. My grandmother disagreed, arguing that it was cruel to exile your child, no matter the circumstance.
And then we moved on. But their minor dispute stuck with me for years, and I would periodically search for stories told from or studying Kaikeyi’s perspective to make sense of the contradiction. I never found them. Eventually, I decided to write my own.
You wrote Kaikeyi when you were 23, in your first semester of law school—a demanding program. How did you manage that balance?
I really don’t know how I did it, because I was living alone and presumably had law school work to do, but I’ve blocked out that time in my memory. Then as now, I write every night, from eight to ten—I just put aside all my other work and do my writing.
I feel that writing has actually been very helpful for me mentally because it’s a kind of release. The writing style is very different from the law. It’s very emotional—it’s almost therapeutic.
Nowadays, I’m also very fortunate that my husband does all of the cooking and the cleanup, so I can come home and write for two hours, and I will have a meal, and it will all be taken care of. And I mention that only to say that I think that male writers or workers throughout history have always been greatly aided by their wives supporting them and doing all of that work for them, and it’s kind of the invisible work that makes their work possible. And I don’t want his work........
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