My fiancee and I have been together for a year and recently got engaged on a trip to Paris. Before we got together, she was in a relationship with a guy for nine years – they met at college when they were 18 and lived together for a few years.

They’ve stayed in touch since breaking up and are in contact over phone, texts and social media – they get together sometimes, too, with a group of their friends.

I’ve mentioned to her that it feels weird for me that they’re so close, but she says they were together a long time and are basically best mates. She feels cutting him off would be too hard but that there’s nothing romantic between them and she’d never cross the........

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