As I sit here in a hotel room in Dubbo with my two kids, next door to my parents' hotel room, I find myself reflecting on how we can survive joint holidays.

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Holidays, where multiple families come together under one roof, may seem like a recipe for joy and togetherness, but it often comes with its own set of challenges - especially when you throw in neurodivergency and opposite body clocks where one group gets up at sparrow fart and the other likes to commune with the night owl.

However, with a bit of planning and a few strategic moves, it's possible to survive joint holidays and even return home feeling somewhat rested. Or at least, this is what I'm told.

Embracing flexibility and compromise is critical to surviving these joint holidays.

Planning ahead can be a great way to ensure holidays are co-ordinated with consideration for everyone. Co-ordinate travel schedules, book accommodation, and make reservations in advance.

This reduces last-minute stress and ensures that everyone is on the same page. You could also consider creating a shared travel itinerary that includes flight details, accommodation information, and a list of planned activities. Of course, this assumes that itineraries and pre-planned activities suit everyone's approach to holidays.

Assigning roles and responsibilities to each person in the group can ensure that no one person is stuck doing all the work. One person could be in charge of booking flights, another for accommodation, and someone else for activities or meals.

Encouraging everyone to pack light and........

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